I have almost forgotten that I am actually 24, not 25. In fact, I won't turn 25 until March 6th of 2015, but on January 1st of 2015 I will be considered
26 in Korea. What?!
Koreans count your time in the womb as part of your life span, so when you are born you are considered 1 year old. Age is incredibly important in Korea, and your age is labeled by the year you were born in, not the individual month and day. So, since I was born in 1990 and it is now 2014, I am considered to be 25 years old along with every other child born in 1990. When the new year changes over in January (solar) or February (lunar), there is a big celebration for
everyone turning a year older. So in the year of 2015, everyone born in 1990 is considered to be 26 years old. Yikes, talk about feeling like time is escaping you!
One of the first questions I am asked by every Korean I meet is "How old are you?". In Korea, you are considered "friends" or 칭구 (chinggu) with anyone in your same birth year. There is a very strict hierarchy in Korea, so even if someone is only one year older than you, you must speak to them with formal language and treat them with respect. On the flip side, if someone is younger, you are able to freely speak in more casual language. Obviously this can get even more complicated with people who are considerably older than you (parents age, grandparents age), as can sometimes lead to confusing work situations. For example, if a boss is younger than some of his employees, how does he address them? Formally because they're older? Informally because he's their boss? Do they have to use more formal language with him even though he's younger? I'm just glad everyone at my school except one teacher is older than me!